Couple problems

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Why is being a couple troublesome after a few years? What happens to people? It's strange that two people can love each other yet after having lived together for a certain length of time they start to dislike things about one another, get iritated with simple things and have rows. Does familiarity really breed contempt as they say? Is this the case? And if so, why should this be the path that every relationship must eventually go down?

Maybe I am wrong. Maybe there are some happy, smiling, always loving couples out there; people who always gaze lovingly into each other's eyes even afer years of cohabitation, people who never resent things about each other and hardly ever row. If there are any of you out there, please stand up and make yourseles known to me. The truth is I don't really believe these blissfully happy couples exist. Oh sure, at the start, when they are first together yes, but after that, when the magic wears off and the dull, mundane reality of everyday life kicks in and worms itself into the fabric of the relationship, then things change. The question I would ask at this point is this: Is this change unavoidable or can it be prevented and if so what measures need to be taken?